Breaking Free From Your
Romantic Rut - Boot Camp

A Proven Path to Breaking Free from Making Bad Relationship Choices
Over and Over, Dating the “Wrong” Men, and Being Stuck
in the Fear of Feeling Not Good Enough….

This step-by-step 4-week teleclass is for women who:

Continually seem to date the wrong men – men who don’t treat you the way you deserve to be treated, or aren’t “your type.” -- time after time.
Never seem to get past 3 dates with same guy, AND then blame the world that there aren’t any men who are right for YOU.
Want to be attracted to the “nice” guys, and want to begin feeling less attracted to the men you usually can’t resist – you know, the guys who are “edgy,” “cool,” or completely unavailable.
Want to move past the residual hurts, pain and “I’ll never let myself fall like that again,” thinking leftover from your Ex (husband or boyfriend)
Are frustrated dating men who seem to communicate exclusively via texting, Instant Messages, Ichat, Skype, Facebook, and other social media because you dream of attracting and having chemistry with men who want to get to know you “in person,” and are willing to use the phone, make plans in advance and are ready for a relationship!
Want to get control over the negative voice in your head that keeps telling you “I could do better,” or “I shouldn’t put up with this.” or even, “how could I have done that again? – I should know better.

If this sounds like you...

This break-through transformational Course includes simple, easy-to-follow strategies that will work like magic as you begin to experience confidence, happiness, and feelings of strength as they return from the deep places they have been hiding for so very long.

Our Next Open Class Begins: Sunday February 5, 2012

Early Bird Price: One payment of only $395
(Note: Marni's one-on-one coaching rate is roughly $300/hr, so this course is a REALLY great opportunity for you to experience and receive professional guidance and support from a very EFFECTIVE & COMPASSIONATE coach at an unbeatable value!)

After January 16, 2012: $425

True Confession: My empty marriage, divorce and the BIG breakup…

I was married at 22 to a man I had been dating since I was 19 years old. I remember that I decided he was “the one,” because on our 2nd date he told me he wanted to have a serious relationship. Who says this on a 2nd date, right? I ended up backing him into the marriage-corner 12 months later when he was offered a job in Chicago, miles away from where we lived in Scottsdale, Arizona. I literally turned towards him one night in bed, and told him that I wasn’t going to move to Chicago unless we were engaged. No pressure there….

Ugh. Mistake number 125 (at least!)

And then, right there, he said that he would marry me. While slightly romantic (there was at least candle-light), the damage was done.

Flash forward 19 years later-- two almost-divorces and three kids under the age of 9– and I was miserable. I had financial security, and brilliant, beautiful children, yet the hole in my soul was turning into nothing less than a cavern, and no matter what I did I felt empty, broken, flawed, and hopeless. The stuff that happened next was dramatic, shameful, and painful, but the bottom line is that I ended up 38, divorced, and a single parent.

It got worse. I got involved with someone immediately thereafter who was “in the process of a divorce.” Translation? I got involved with a man who was still technically married, emotionally unavailable, dishonest and capable of only dishing out crumbs of attention. Nevertheless, in my mind, he was my soulmate. He had blue eyes. He was charming. Blah blah blah…

Within a year of meeting we had seven different break ups and just as many make-ups. I caught him lying constantly and he would show up to dates hours late. Quite frankly, I was exhausted. It only got worse, though, because one night in September, completely out of the blue, he came over to tell me he wanted to break up. The sting was unbearable; it came out of nowhere. Stuck firmly in a romantic rut, though, I became obsessed, wondering why he had chosen to break up when everything seemed so “perfect.” I began driving by his house to check on who was there, frequenting the places he hung out with his friends, and engaged in a variety of pathetic attempts to seduce him. I brought him coffees, skipped appointments, and clung at the possibility he would take me back. Within days he had a new girlfriend.

I was embarrassed and ashamed.

I remember going to meet with friends, getting all pumped up and putting on my ‘happy face’ so that people wouldn’t know how bad things were going for me. In fact...

Sick of band-aid solutions?

After more than 20 years of feeling like all my relationship disasters were somehow my fault, I finally got frustrated enough and mad enough to draw a line in the sand and do whatever it would take to turn things around.

I went on a studying "frenzy" and attended a 10 day retreat that gave a powerful kickstart to my transformation. I started reading every self-help, personal growth book I could get my hands on. In the middle of my studying marathon I set a new goal, which had nothing to do with finding a new relationship. I was going to stop dating, and start creating a life I loved, based on falling deeply in love with myself first.

All of a sudden I was on a mission to create an incredible, fun, fulfilling life that had nothing to do with men, dating or relationships. I started doing volunteer work. I enrolled in graduate school and took an interest in starting a side business. I started developing cool friendships with amazing people – people who were positive, optimistic, spiritual and successful.

In the meantime, I started getting asked out by really great men -- men who I had never before even noticed before because I didn’t think they were edgy, or cool enough for me. I started having clear expectations and setting boundaries, and feeling confident about letting the men go who didn’t want to play by my new rules. My entire life was really ramping up.

But, here's the funny part...

I realized that if you do the right things in the "wrong ways" you'll get so-so results (or none at all). But, if you do the same activities (like pursuing a hobby, joining a new group, take a class or make new friends) in the "right ways" the difference is literally like night and day. It's not the big things, but the little distinctions: your way of talking about things, asking the right questions, understanding what potential partners want to hear, and be asked...that makes all the difference.

At this point, I began to study professionally. I became trained as a Mentor Facilitator for the internationally renowned Hoffman Institute, earned recognition as a Certified Professional Life Coach, and became a Master Practitioner in administering and assessing the effective “D-Factor.”

It was then I began to learn what it takes to ACTUALLY break free from a romantic rut. Some of the things I did in my journey towards breaking free might really surprise you because they can seem so counter-intuitive. For example...

I went on a Dating Fast in which I completely stopped dating, looking for men to date, and paused my online dating memberships. Many people believe the best way to “get over” someone is to “get under” someone else. Not true.
I shifted my thinking and began to hate him less, and love myself more.
I become more demanding, had more needs then ever before, and expressed them directly to men I was interested in – even the men that were gorgeous and used to the guys who intimidated me most.
I created standards, identified my needs, became more articulate in communicating them confidently.
And, I followed my "10-Step Dating With Dignity Method to Manifesting Love of Self and Others" to the letter.

Can you lightly tap your jar on the counter?

Recently, I was making pasta for my kids for dinner. Unfortunately, the jar of spaghetti sauce was twisted on so tight I couldn’t open it. I put it under hot water. I twisted it and twisted it a zillion times. Watching me fumble around for a few minutes, finally, my teenager chimed in, "I can do it."

I handed her the jar and she tried to open it. She got out a knife, and tried to stick it underneath the lid to pry it open. But still, she couldn’t open it either. So my youngest daughter, who had walked in the kitchen chimed in. She said, "Lightly tap the jar on the counter." Guess what?

With that little suggestion, the lid instantly opened! It's amazing how one little technique can make something easy which was once very hard. And that's what it's like when you know the dating and relationship secrets I'm about to share with you.

Introducing the “Breaking Free From Your Romantic Rut” Tele-Process.

Here are a few snippets of what you are about to get when you enroll in this process today:

A BRAND NEW way of thinking about life, dating and communication that ensures you avoid unproductive conflict with others, and puts an end to blaming yourself –these shifts alone will help you boost your ability to attract love into your life dramatically.
Learn 10 new tools to change your belief system, and transform your thinking so that you make better choices in all areas of your life – including the men you date.
End the “white knuckle” approach to getting over someone—not calling him first, or calling to ask “where have you been?” when he vanishes out of nowhere.
Freedom from the pain of your destructive romantic patterns to begin experiencing confidence, FUN, new friends, hobbies, interests and a LIFE you absolutely LOVE!
A list of guidelines to understand how you can date with intention and purpose so that you STOP wasting time with men who don’t treat you like the princess that you are!
Mastery of the skills necessary to create appropriate boundaries, plus the confidence necessary to claim these expectations without feeling like men will leave you because you are too “high maintenance.”
Absolute freedom from feeling “needy,” broken,” “messed up” or like it’s “your fault” that your relationships haven’t been successful.
A clear path towards developing the #1 trait that men are attracted to, guaranteed.
Learn the exact things you need to say and do to attract relationship-minded men
A day-by-day reality check to help you move on, break up, and do what’s necessary to make this summer the most romantic, and fun season of your life thus far!
A comprehensive 70 page color workbook with exercises, handouts and charts to provide you an arsenal of tools to guide and support you on your journey
MP3 audio guides to cement and anchor the breakthroughs you make each week
Access to all downloadable recorded calls so you can study the material again and again so that it becomes part of your total new consciousness.

Enjoy the lifestyle of the highly successful, independent, feminine, woman who is a man-magnet.

When you put these strategies into play in your life, some of the side perks are that you will...

Feel relieved, and aware that you actually enjoy your life so much you aren’t even worried about “when” Mr. Right is going to come into your life.
Skyrocket your income as a result of not using all your mental energy trying to “fit into” someone else’s life that doesn’t match your needs at all.
Be the envy of other women banging their heads against the wall, copying each other, trying to figure out what's missing from their lives (and you can certainly jump in to help them out).
Meet new great, fun people – men and women.
Gain confidence in your self, your body and see yourself as the TOTAL package!
Feel the HUGE sense of pride, contribution, and fulfillment that comes from making a difference in people’s lives now that you are actually showing up for your friends, instead of always crying and whining about your love life.

Plus…

You can finally start enjoying the fruits of dating incredible men by being treated with respect, and always having your dignity, self respect and self love in tact!

Here's How To Get Started Now...

Instead of making up some fake discount that expires in 5 minutes like those other programs, I’d like to encourage you to BUY NOW for one reason and one reason only. Because if you don’t get this now and you go back to doing things the same old way, you’ll lose out and so will your potential partner – the guy who is waiting for you to magnetize HIM.

Yes, it’s true! You have nothing to lose because you can try it for 30 days and start seeing the results for yourself. If you are not happy and participate in all pieces of the class (attendance at each of the 8 teleclasses, turn in required homework and take advantage of your coaching session with me), you can get your money back, no questions asked.

Here’s what is included in this program:

Four weeks of group coaching via 90-minute telephone calls taught and facilitated by me.
Access to me via email and text when you need emergency Insta-Coaching support.
Instant access to replays of each call so you can begin to build an audio library to refresh and review the material whenever you need additional support.
Supplemental MP3 audio downloads of guided meditations and visualizations--tools to keep on hand to use over and over as you master skills taught in the course.
An in depth 70-page PDF color workbook that includes spaces to journal, record your visualizations, work through specific exercises and keep track of your progress.

4-Week Course Agenda

Module 1: Identifying Your Energetic Self Perception and Working Through Your Specific Blocks
Module 2: Exploring New Ways of Thinking
Module 3: Who Am I, and What Are My Needs?
Module 4: Begin to Identify Your Relationship Goals
Module 5: Choosing Who I Want Through Understanding Who I Am
Module 6: Realizing Your Relationship Vision
Module 7: How to Date With Dignity
Module 8: Living Your Vision, Manifesting Love

I didn’t think coaching was for me. A therapist, that’s what I thought would do the trick. I didn’t know anyone who had a life coach; everyone has a therapist. After months of therapy, and a handful of prescriptions that I was told would help me deal with the pain, my mental and emotional state were still the same. My destructive thinking, depression, and sadness were still very much alive and thriving. Therapy was clearly not working. I thought, why not give this life coach a try--what do I have to lose? After my first session with Marni, I felt different, I felt empowered. Over time, she helped me stop making excuses, got me out of playing the victim, and helped me detach from my break-up in a healthy way – no prescriptions necessary. The truth is, there is no “trick.” It takes work. I remember Marni telling me that people hope one day they will wake up and magically be over their break-up, their relationship, whatever their “situation” may be. While that sounds wonderful, it’s absolutely not the case. You have to put in the work if you want to get through your situation in a healthy way and not make the same mistakes in the future. Marni will undoubtedly help you do that. She saved my life in every way it could have been saved. I stopped blaming other people, started taking control of my life, and began creating a life I love. I would not have been able to do this without my life coach. I love you Marni! Thank you, for teaching me how to get my life back!
~Aryn, Orange Country, CA

I took your 8-week Manifesting Love Course last fall, and am writing to say thank you, thank you, thank you! After I took the course dates started coming without me even looking or applying to a dating site. I'm a magnet. I rated my beliefs by paying attention to the type of men I was attracting. They all have been good quality men. Most of them have met my top 5 musts - Integrity, Responsible, Financially stable, Confident, and complete gentlemen. Now I'm having a hard time who to choose! It's simply amazing. Also, all of my dates have wanted to date me again and have called immediately. Quite honestly, I never thought I'd be the type of girl to face such a dilemma. I'm writing to give you a thousand Thank You's! Your shared knowledged has truly changed my dating life."
~Cedes, Los Angeles, CA

I’ve been in the program with Marni and it has been quite transforming internally. For the first time I’m making decisions and not being afraid of making them. I’m not letting my fears overtake me and I am truly learning and believing the message of love for myself. I’ve always cared about it but never really thought it was that important, but so far I am learning that that it truly is the key. Self-love is the key to anything and everything. I’m glad I am attending this group. I have made some very important decisions from the first week that I started. The lessons truly move you and wake you up, and they make you want to make decisions based on what you’re learning right away. It’s truly, truly positive.
~Deb, Los Angeles, CA

Since I began the dating with dignity course I’ve taken more responsibility for my own actions as a single person. I’ve also realized negative views will breed more negative views, and how I can change that into the positive. This shift would not have happened without the class. I realized I needed to get clear on the dating process. I need to be more discerning and realize what is it that I want. Marni’s course is very enlightening and refreshing. It gives you clear tools to work with. Instead of being single and LA having the power over you, you take the power and have fun being single in LA. Since the course I’ve been developing an inner strength, getting clearer and more grounded, and working with the tools Marni provided me with.
~Alexis, Los Angeles, CA

Here's How to Order Now:

Next Open Class Begins: Sunday February 5, 2012

Early Bird Price: Click HERE to make a one-time payment of just $395
(Again: Marni's one-on-one coaching rate is roughly $300/hr, so this course is a REALLY great opportunity for you to experience and receive professional guidance and support from a very EFFECTIVE & COMPASSIONATE coach at an unbeatable value!)

After January 16, 2012: $425

I don’t want to use a sales tactic here – it’s not my style -- but the fact is this:

We have emailed invitations with links to this page to 2000 people and there are only 100 spots available in this Course. (The next one does not begin until Fall) I really don’t want you to miss the opportunity to truly begin "Breaking Free” now and experience an entire summer of romantic possibilities, fun, freedom and power! Don’t wait. Enroll now.

Remember, this Course comes with a 30 Day "Feel Empowered" guarantee!

After trying it in the "real world,” and participating in the teleprocess 100%, if you don't love it for any reason during the first 4 weeks, simply let me know, and I'll give you a full refund!

Our Unconditional Money Back Guarantee
Our Promise to You

If after participating in 100% of all the required modules of the Breaking Free From Your Romantic Rut program you do not experience a shift, tell one of our staff members and w will refund every penny of your enrollment price within 30 business days of the last day of class -- without hassle or hard feelings.

We have brought together some of the most profound relationship principles, techniques and material to help you achieve all that you seek in your life. To join us and to assure your own relationship success, please register now to assure your place in the class. Enrollment is limited.

What's at stake?

Research repeatedly shows that people who don’t change their patterns end up alone. And, while I know it’s hard to hear, without formal support, education and coaching, the truth is this: most women won’t make the change.

I know it’s hard to hear, but it’s the truth.

Let’s say you didn't get this program, where will that leave you? I can't make the decision for you. It's 100% up to you. I can help you, but you've got to take the first step. If you get stuck, or need personal support, don’t forget there is private coaching with the class so you can be sure to get all the help you need.

Still on the fence?

Ask me any question that is in your mind or in your heart about this program. I want you to make a decision that is right for you: Email me at marni@datingwithdignity.com or call me at 310-880-2476.

I look forward to getting to know you better and watching you grow whether you take advantage of this program or not.

Warmest Regards,
Marni Battista, MA.Ed, CPC

Questions? Contact...
Marni Battista
310-880-2476
marni@datingwithdignity.com
www.Datingwithdignity.com

PS: This program comes with a 30 Day "Feel Empowered" guarantee! After trying it in the "real world,” and participating in the teleprocess 100%, if you don't love it for any reason during the first 4 weeks, simply let me know, and I'll give you a full refund!

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Breaking Free From Your Romantic Rut - Boot Camp

A Proven Path to Breaking Free from Making Bad Relationship Choices Over and Over, Dating the “Wrong” Men, and Being Stuck in the Fear of Feeling Not Good Enough….